A lot of people have their baggages, some said and some unsaid. Some baggages are hidden until exposed while some remain hidden forever. That’s life nomatter what you think. It happens I tell you.
Some people marry each other while hiding lots of things from one another. They could only tell themselves some snippets of “baggages” if they presumed it was safe to do so. They wouldn’t lay down all the stuffs on the table. It is very easy to demand openness especially when it pays you to know while you feel your own can be tolerated because it’s not much. Na so e be my people..
A man who refuses to talk when he’s being openly “cheated” could have something he’s “hiding” so it pays to tolerate the “insults”. The woman who caught her husband with another lady on her matrimonial bed doing “gymnastics” yet kept quiet and allowed things “to go on normally” could be avoiding things. Her “ justifiable violent reaction” could bring out issues she would like not to talk about. It could happen within friends and families… Wetin man go do?
It only says something: Any of your reaction(s) to an event must be based on your thorough understanding of all “hidden facts”. There are some “things” that are better left unsaid and rather allowed as they were. Being wise should be a virtue….
Hope it remains peaceful and gentle around you…. I still remain your quiet friend who says naadaa!! Ewolewoooooo!!!!!#ewolewoo!!