No be small tin ooo!!! People are surely passing through different emotions. The emotions are dealt with on individual level I tell you. Most times the emotions might not be on the same intensity but the stress can still be overwhelming.
There is definitely a difference between a man with N200000 in his pocket and his friend with just 1000 as the weekend is getting closer. The prayers and interests of these individuals on Friday or Sunday can never be the same. They’re operating on different wavelengths I tell you. The level of aggression to things from both men would surely vary. One can be more understanding and the other far less accommodating. They are both not necessarily bad but conditions nor be same o…
The difference between a non-working married woman whose husband has lost his job and her sister who’s unmarried but rich biz woman is massive o!!! No one can advise each other without suspicions of the other. The different between what is good or bad in the two cases can never be the same. Preach all you can, both of them would never see life in same fashion. Anyone trying to get in the way might be in for a serious shock I tell you.
There is a gulf between a young man who has been working in an oil company for close to 4 years since he left school and his colleague/friend who has practically given up on the “fairness of God” because he believes employers don’t believe he exists. They used to be colleagues, yes, but that’s where it ends. There will most likely be that mutual tension of rage of “why only me ?” on one of them. The atmosphere can be tense sometimes I tell you as any kind of advice, joke or seemingly normal guy gist could be misconstrued in any context.
It only says something: No matter your good intentions in your advice, the other party may not share it. Wisdom should guide you on what to say, Where to say it and How to say it. Further development of the relationship could really depend on your wisdom in this instance.
Hope it’s peaceful and gentle around you… I nor yan naatinn!! Ewolewoooo! !
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